Guide to this blog

The Blogroll is now in two parts. The main part is arranged according to the date the blog was last updated, with the most recent first. The second part is a list of interesting Twitter feeds in alphabetical order. The section covering blogs that use the BDSMLR platform has been removed as it is no longer of any functional use.

Saturday, 19 August 2017

Optimum positions

My favourite for this month featured a young lady getting an OTK spanking but with the twist that she's been hoisted totally off the ground and probably feels especially vulnerable.  I got an almost immediate response from my regular fan/critic Old Tom that there was nothing wrong with a much more conventional and stable OTK position.  I do like a bit of variety sometimes but in general I would have to agree.  The more I've thought about it, the more - in my mind anyway - there's almost invariably one optimum position for any given instrument.  If I'd decided to correct a young lady by using a particular implement, I guess 95% of the time I would expect to use the type of position I've indicated below.  I wonder to what extent others agree with my choices?

HAND SPANKING

Yes, I'd go for a most traditional OTK position, ideally on a good substantial leather sofa almost every time.

HAIRBRUSH

Replacing the hand with a hairbrush, my only adjustment would be to make sure there was better support than for the hand spanking because the hairbrush can hurt a lot and it may be necessary to restrain the subject from trying to wriggle away.

BELT

Using a standard belt or strap (e.g. the type manufactured with the purpose of holding your trousers up) you probably want to get a bit more swing than is realistic with the girl across your lap but you want her bottom to be well supported so she can't move it away from the implement.  I'd consider a number of options here but ideally there should be a bit of a bend so the back of a sofa, the arm of a chair or face down on the bed with a pillow strategically placed to lift her bottom up a bit would be my ideal.

SLIPPER


If we're talking about an actual slipper or flip-flop for example in the domestic environment, then I'd probably take an approach similar to that for the belt above.  However, if you read around credible accounts of life in UK schools in, say, the 1950's and 1960's, "the slipper" was widely used as the name for what was actually a plimsoll/gymshoe.  I'm going to write a longer piece on this instrument soon because it's clear that it was widely used, in particular for less official punishments.  While many different teachers seem to have drawn on the widespread availability of such items in a school and the fact that their presence was less a cause for alert than the sight of cane hanging up, it would hardly be surprising that the most frequent user of such implement would be the PE or games staff. As such, it's absolutely ideal fro the girl to be bent over some convenient piece of sports equipment such as a vaulting horse.

LIGHT TO MODERATE CANINGS

If the girl in question is fortunate enough to be able to adopt the classic "touch your toes" position then it seems eminently suitable for a good swift caning, with legs straight and together  As well as probably being very uncomfortable there is also the risk of falling forward or coming out of position and therefore the threat of extra strokes if that should happen can only add to the girl's misery and enhance the impression of the experience.

HARDER CANINGS
Courtesy of Firm Hand
If you're going to give a really hard or longer caning, or the girl is a bit older and less flexible, I think you have to be realistic and have her bend across a desk or chair although she should still have legs straight and together.  Clearly she might still incur extra penalties, for example by standing up, but there's not much point in setting up a situation where she never has any chance of staying in place long enough for you to complete the punishment.

THE TAWSE (OFTEN REFERRED TO AS 'THE BELT' IN SCHOOLS)
Courtesy of Xerotics
Of course the tawse can be applied across the bottom just as the cane could be applied across the hands, but to me it always seems more sensible to stick to caning the bottom and tawsing the hands.  I know that when the cane was used in UK schools, especially on girls, it was often across the hands but it always seemed a rather risky process.  I made that comment to a friend of mine who happens to provide services as a mistress and she immediately demonstrated to me that she could cane my hands safely and effectively (ouch!).  However, choose the tawse, and I'd expect the girl to hold her hands out in front of her, one on top of the other as pictured here and half way through to change the hands over.

THE PADDLE
Courtesy of RealSpankings
Moving across the pond to the US and the land of the wooden paddle, I don't think it's realistic for the girl to have to bend over with her legs straight and together and not supported by a chair or desk - there's a lot more momentum than with the cane and there's no point in knocking her off her feet with each blow.

THE BIRCH
Courtesy of MOOD Pictures
Moving up to judicial punishment such as the birch, I think it is almost essential that the girl is secured in place.  Properly applied it is going to be intensely painful and it's essential for basic safety as well as being able to complete the punishment that the recipient has minimum scope for movement.

Okay that's a quick roundup of my view of optimum position for each of the more common instruments - anyone have any different views?

Tuesday, 1 August 2017

Favourite for August

I do like it when an OTK spanking is done in such a way that the girl can get neither feet or hands on the floor - so much more vulnerable and helpless.

Digital Economy Act 2017

The UK government is on the warpath once more with the intention of restricting access to on-line pornography by under 18s.  And, once again, they will fail.  They don't understand technology and in any case they can only restrict material published from the UK or hosted in the UK.  And they clearly haven't heard of VPNs.  For a good academic comment on the new legislation it's well worth reading this article from The Conversation.  

Friday, 14 July 2017

Sun Newspaper Online

This caught my eye (as you might expect!) on the website of The Sun newspaper.
Sadly it's just another story about the mis-selling of PPI...  I strongly suspect they made a conscious decision of how much of the article's headline to show on the front page.

Saturday, 1 July 2017

Favourite for July

Someone seems to have hit on a way to make after-school detention more shameful for these girls.
Plus there ia the added issue that anyone who fails to complete the requisite number of lines before the detention is over will be getting the slipper.

Friday, 30 June 2017

Or is it just me?

Do other people experience visiting a garden centre and wandering into the furniture section and thinking "What a waste of good rattan??

Thursday, 1 June 2017

Favourite for June

What is there not to like - young girl, gorgeous bum, and obvious apprehension as she tries to see what is in his hands.  I suspect it is likely to be a belt...

Monday, 29 May 2017

Today - UK's Daily Mail newspaper

Front page, readers are being confronted with this question...
It's actually about some new medical procedure involving powerful suction, but I would suggest that regular spankings could have the same effect (and side-effect!).

Friday, 5 May 2017

Words fail me

Truly, can't think of anything to say...

Tuesday, 2 May 2017

Favourite for May

(not Theresa May, but if anyone could figure a way of knocking some sense into her...)

As a kid I must have trawled dozens and dozens of children's stories and comics in the hope of finding a spanking story.  Weeks of frustration would just occasionally reveal a nugget and make the tedium worthwhile.  A relatively common source was the cartoon strip based around Billy Bunter.


Now, while seeing "the fat owl of the remove" being chased by a cane wielding headmaster was not especially erotic in itself, the act that was being threatened (yikes!) or actually carried out (yaroo!) held it's own fascination.  I have a very vivid recollection on one such scene where Bunter fell into a stream head-first and someone whacked his backside with the oar taken from a handy rowing boat.  For many years I've wondered about the effectiveness of such a tool - rather unwieldy to use and spreading the impact over a large area but, on the other hand, quite long so good leverage.  This week's favourite brought all those memories back.

Thanks to Dana Kane.