Quite a few of those who have started out as 'bottoms' in the spanking community, often as models, as the years go by seem to be drawn to 'topping'. Others have always been tops. Many of those would insist that they have real expertise and know exactly how to dish out punishments without ever having been on the receiving end. There are a few who identify as tops but at some time or other have allowed someone to administer punishments to them so they have a better understanding of what it feels like. If you've ever seen Cassie Hunter thrashing some bloke, usually mercilessly, you could be excused for thinking she wouldn't like it if the roles were reversed. However, if you hunt around, you can discover that, on at least one occasion, she allowed another highly regarded mistress the opportunity to give her a caning. I haven't seen the video version of this event but I have seen some other videos of Cassie being punished, sometimes by men. I've not seen any where she took a punishment bare bottomed but there's one of her getting slippered OTK (with a plimsoll) on the seat of her panties and it would be fair to say she didn't seem to cope with the experience very well. Of course, a single image like this doesn't really show how well she handled being caned over the seat of her shorts although she does look a bit red-faced.
I tend to the view that those who seek to give, for example. a caning, ought to have, at some time or other, been given one. As someone who identifies as a top, it's probably only fair to admit that I have allowed a very competent exponent of canings, to allow me to experience what it feels like. You know what? It bloody hurt!
