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Saturday, 11 April 2009

Depressing

I recently posted about my views on the way the country is going in trying to make sex into a crime. Sadly I don't see any real basis for optimism. I had hoped at one stage that - in a way like it's become increasingly acceptable to be openly gay without every member of the same sex feeling threatened, we might move to a situation where it would be possible to be openly spanko without everyone feeling the need to stick a book down the back of their pants whenever you were around.

If anything we seem to be moving the other way. We're already on the brink of some parts of our "scene" being criminalised. While it don't see any likelihood of immediate danger of being criminalised by viewing material in the Xerotics, Girls Boarding School, Northern Spanking, Firm Hand type of areas, we're perhaps starting to get to a stage where possessing material from Lupus, Spanking Server/Pain4fem, Hard Caning/Caned 4 Cash or Mood might not be viewed so lightly.

It was interesting that when I was posting my previous item about the victimisation of Victoria Thorne I actually clicked the "publish" button, looked out the window, and saw a police patrol car cruising slowly past my house. There was a split second of paranoia. Perhaps - if things continue to decline - that's something we're all going to be facing for real. If at some point I found myself in the papers because of police interest in my predilections, I don't know how I'd cope with the effect on my family - it would probably cost me my job as well.

If I was told tomorrow that looking at some of sites I've just named was now illegal,would I never look at them again? I do have the advantage of a strong imagination - I can get excited about pictures that might seem perfectly innocent to someone else because I can weave a story around what is happening. Takes this one for example...

These three are obviously in for a stern ticking off from the headmistress and maybe more. The one on the right is probably the ringleader and is about to get told to take her hands out of her pockets and stand straight. The one on the left is the one least used to being in trouble - probably just easily lead. She'll be the weak link who'll confess and drop all three of them in it.

And what about this one...A stunning girl who is clearly in big trouble and waiting to go into the head's office who's being kept waiting deliberately so she can think about her behaviour and what the consequences are likely to be.

Yes - I love those sorts of pictures - but I want to live in a country where depiction of consensual acts isn't illegal and I don't get made to feel more and more like a criminal.

7 comments:

MarQe said...

Lupus, Spanking Server/Pain4fem, Hard Caning/Caned 4 Cash or Mood

Personally I would like to see the back of sites like these. They don't belong in the spanking scene that I want to be part of.Just an opinion.

Nessy said...

I think we are caught up in a much larger social phenomenon with economic roots. When times seem good and people can 'look forward to the future', we experience a spring of broadening minds and social progress. At times of economic gloom and fear of the future, society tends to prefer conservative, harder lined illiberal and narrow doctrines. Right now we are in the midst of the latter and see a rise in far Right politics, religious fundamentalism and enthusiasm for social clampdowns on anyone who is not part of the 'main stream'. I hope we get over it soon.

Nessy said...

Having read a bit more of your blog, James, I want to add that I do not in any way approve of 'spanking' used in any context other than informed consensual recreation - the idea of judicial etc. uses is totally abhorrent and I believe it should never be used as punishment.

James Stephenson said...

I'm not really a fan of the most extreme end of the sites I talked about either. I think a bare bottom looks lovely with a red glow to both cheeks or six crimson cane marks them, but doesn't do much for me if it's all cut and bleeding. However we probably all choose to draw the line if different places. I wouldn't want anyone to think I would derive pleasure from a really harsh thrashing that leaves the recipient really badly marked up. However having read the comments of some in the scene whose opinions I trust such as Adele Haze and Pandora Blake I think I shifted slightly in what I would feel able to enjoy viewing since they have participated in scenes for some of these sites that were perhaps a bit more extreme than I might have originally felt comfortable with. It doesn't alter the fact that many of the videos and images I like most actually involve the recipeint of the punishment being fully clothed! The key issue for me is that it has to be consensual but after that we might have the agree to disagree about certain sites.

As to the issue of judicial punishment I have to admit I'm in two minds. I don't have any time for the barbaric canings handed out in some countries - mainly in the Far East - that cause lifelong scarring. I do wonder whether something more moderate as a short sharp shock might sometimes be kinder than long drawn out punishments.

Photino said...

"When times seem good and people can 'look forward to the future"

What nonsense. The left wing fascism were now experiencing in the UK has conincicided with a long (and very artificial) economic boom.

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Anonymous said...

Don't go for 'extreme' myself...there was too much real life extreme in Irish schools in the past, and I suppose it left a bad taste.
Erotic-Roleplay-Spanking...yup!
Thats me,
Interesting post Sir.
Best wishes,
Paolo