Guide to this blog

The Blogroll is now in three parts. The main part is arranged according to the date the blog was last updated with the most recent first. Many blogs use the BDSMLR platform which does not include date information; they are in a separate Blogroll arranged alphabetically but I check from time to time and remove any that have been permanently closed. The final part is a list of interesting Twitter feeds - again in alphabetical order.

Sunday, 18 October 2009

Thoughts while travelling

I travel a lot for work and often in hotels at night by myself it's a bit boring. Last night I'm sitting in a hotel club room having a quiet(ish) drink - this "ish" was mainly because of a group of Australians sitting nearby discussing different experiences of flights they had recently. After discussing the different seat configurations of Airbus and Boeing (yawn) one of them started on a recent flight where there had been a family with some kids running riot and the parent apparently unable to do anything to control them (thinks - message to all airlines - kids are best placed in the luggage hold).

The one of them said something about he would never have dared behave like that when he was a kid and suddenly the conversation became more interesting. Before I knew what was happening one of the guys was saying how often at his school if something happened to one of the kids in class and nobody would own up to be punished the teacher would go 'round and give the belt to everyone in the class apart from the victim, and how he thought that was really bad for the victim who had to watch it all. I've never been a fan of collective punishment and I could well see that the "victim" might end worse off as a lot of innocent kids got whacked and resented him/her for being the cause.

It also made me recall a story from a long time back when I was growing up. My parents were friendly with an older couple whose son had gone into teaching. I remember them saying once that the school he was in was a bit tough and on one occasion he'd taken his watch off during a class and it went missing. A search failed to find it and nobody owned up so in the end he had lined up the entire class (boys and girls) and caned every one of them but still didn't get his watch back. Amazing that this was ever acceptable I think. I'm not one of those who prefixes my website/blog with comments about not condoning the corporal punishment of minors because - so long as it's not done for sexual gratification - I think it has a place, but I would have expected parents to have been outraged if their son or daughter was caned or belted for something they hadn't done with this sort of "class action."

Back to the conversation in the hotel where one of the women in the group now added her story. She had two younger brothers and something (I didn't hear what) had gone wrong and they had been asked which of them was responsible with a threat that they might all be punished. She saw that her youngest brother was upset at the thought so she had owned up. However the other brother had then been ashamed and had admitted it was really him. The result was that their father had belted him for what he'd done wrong and then given her a good hiding for lying to try to cover up the truth. Now that does have some element of justice to it I suppose!

Sunday, 11 October 2009

Love our lurkers day

Delighted to be a part of this great annual event and thanks to Bonnie for organising it. Delighted that I now have 24 people who are following this blog regularly. Delighted that occasionally someone posts a comment. Disappointed there aren't more comments? Well I suppose so. In particular nobody ever seems to comment when I go all serious about something, but those are the posts that matter most to me. However I'll keep going - sporadically. Any if any lurkers ever decide to just say hello I'll always appreciate it.